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|Subject: words to live by.... Tue Jan 08, 2013 2:27 am|| |
- Quote :
- Forgiveness isn't something that is done easy.
Everyone does things in their life that they need forgiveness for. No one is perfect! Mistake are made, words are said and as hurtful as those things are to us, we need to remember that no one is perfect, and everyone can make a mistake. Even stupid choices that can really cause damage...but that doesn't mean that it was done intentionally to hurt us.
We all have love in our hearts, we need to use that love...tap into
the power of love and forgive, not for the other person so much,
but more for ourselves, so we can heal and move on. But if you
are going to forgive, you have to do it all the way, in forgiveness
there can't be half way...it's all or nothing. If you think you have forgiven and you are still hating that person or dwelling on the hurt, or trying to hold that person accountable...you haven't truly forgiven. There is a saying that goes "Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast." and vice versa for man doing the forgiving. What that means is...quit bringing it up quit punishing that person because if you are still doing that then you haven't forgiven anything. We must learn to let things go that we cannot change. We are only human and humans make mistakes. That is how we learn, and grow and become a better person.